Helping a Hurting Friend: Take Off Your Mask

Helping a Hurting Friend: Take Off Your Mask

Understanding the Times and Knowing What to Do

Living Free Every Day®

Today's Scripture
"You can't keep your true self hidden forever; before long you'll be exposed. You can't hide behind a religious mask forever; sooner or later the mask will slip and your true face will be known." Luke 12:2 MSG

Thoughts for Today
Many of us wear a mask. We don't want other people to know the "real us." And yet, if we want to help someone we are about who is struggling with a problem, we need to take off our mask and be real. This quality of being genuine will enable us to be more effective in relationships with those we want to helpactually, in any relationship.

If people you are trying to help believe that you are a phony, they are not going to trust you. They need to sense that your inner feelings line up with what you say and do. They need to see you living a consistent life from day to day, whether you are at church or on the job or having a good time with friends. They need to hear you be honest about your feelingsalthough you do need to find a balance there. Don't be so transparent that you hurt or offend people with your honesty.

Consider this
As a genuine person, you will not act superior or pretend to be someone you are not. You will honestly admit when you have been wrong.

Being openly genuine will open the door to a trusting relationship between you and those you want to help. It will encourage them to come to you and to respect what you say. If you want to help others, be willing to be real.

Father, teach me to set aside my pride and be willing to be real. Help me be honest about my feelings and genuine in all I do. Help me take off the mask. In Jesus' name

These thoughts were drawn from

Understanding the Times and Knowing What to Do
by Dr. Jimmy Ray Lee. This book offers biblical strategies for ministry to our family and friends. Contemporary issues and needs faced by society are addressed with biblical principles that are timeless. Ideal for small group leaders and Sunday school teachers who want a better understanding of ministry in an addictive culture.

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